Will I Ever Find Love Again? How To Boost Your Chances

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What are some things you can do to help your chances of being loved?

Everyone will at one point in their life feel lonely. Feeling love be the sweetest thing, but what if you’ve been single for a while, or you just went through a bad break up? Will you ever find love again or will it forever be out of your grasp?

Let’s start with a positive outlook. People will want to spend more time with someone who is genuinely happy and has a positive outlook on life, so what can we do to bring that light back into the people we care about lives?

What if I told you these things will work: Making new friends, going out and meeting new people and working on staying positive and happy will enhance your chances of finding love? So here are some things to consider.

Put Yourself OUT There

If your friend or family member is having a get together – go! These types of parties will give you the opportunity to meet new people and will allow you to let your hair down and laugh with those closest to you.

You will be surprised at who will make an appearance, as friends will want to surprise their loved ones and will naturally invite their own group of friends to the party.

Sometimes we only focus on family events; however, we also forget that our friend’s birthdays, anniversaries and the like are equally worthy of celebration! What better excuse do we need than to gather around with all our friends and celebrate these special moments?

These will give us the chance to meet new singles in our friend’s circle and will allow us to mingle with each other will ease!

Find out where other people hang out who like the same things you enjoy doing.

If you go out and enjoy a certain activity will put yourself in the best position to meet someone who shares your interest. You will have already started a conversation with them about something that is common ground, will help you find new friends and maybe even love!

I recommend going online and looking for events that will be held near your area. These will be well advertised and will give you the best opportunity to meet new people.

Let’s be real for a second, will we? The chance of someone popping out from behind a bush and handing us our dream partner is unlikely. However, will that stop us from trying? Of course not! We know better now than to just sit at home and wait for the fairy tale to come knocking on our door.

By going out there and meeting new friends will open a whole new world of opportunities for you to explore! If anything, it will allow you to expand your social circle which will put you in touch with people who share your interests, hobbies and lifestyle choices without having to compromise!

Know the difference between fooling around and building a real relationship.

I’m talking about the person who will try and convince you to sleep with them without any strings attached. We all know what this will mean, so don’t be fooled into thinking you will find love this way! If that’s all you want as well and you are two consenting adults – then all good. But, if you want to build a deeper relationship, you need to take it slower and make sure you are not dealing with a player.

You will need to be careful when telling people what you will expect out of any relationship in order to avoid any misunderstandings.

Is there anything else I can do to find love?

You should spend some time getting to know someone better before wading into deeper water. If they are not ready for more than an occasional date, then respect their wishes but also make sure that your friendship is worth hanging onto.

Believing that there is more than one soul mate is very important.

Having more than one option will allow you to view all options without any pressure. You will feel less anxious about the whole situation and will be much happier reducing your chances of making a bad decision by giving into “love at first sight.”

You will just need to trust that everything will work out for the best, even if it doesn’t work out how you expected! This is why taking advantage of every opportunity will give you exponentially higher chances of finding someone special. Doesn’t it feel better knowing you have many options vs just the “one”?

Release your ex from your thoughts.

You need to concentrate on yourself and what will make you happy, only then will it be possible to give yourself another chance at having a fulfilling relationship.

If you can’t release your ex – it will hamper you with finding love again. You will need to accept that and chose someone else and allow yourself to move on with your life.

Don’t go after him/her because it will only cause more complications for you both in the future! Therefore, it is important to get over your ex and focus on what you want out of life instead of depending on their presence.

So Will I ever find love again? Yes but you must release the past.

The fact that we cannot control everything that happens to us, bad or good will makes the whole experience so much more meaningful. When we try too hard to push our will upon others will often lead to our own misery, but when we learn how give up some control and understand how things work, we will be so much happier for it!

Take As Much Time As You Need

It will take time to get over your break-up. If you are not truly over it, the last thing you will want will be another relationship.

Take some time for yourself before starting up a new relationship. Spend time working on yourself, work on your goals and getting back into the dating game will feel less daunting when you have become a better version of yourself. If you are feeling down – there are simple strategies that will boost your mood.

Remember that love can come at any moment so write down the top 5 – 10 qualities your perfect partner must have before looking for love. This will help to narrow down your search and ensure that when you do find someone, they are absolutely perfect for you!

Love doesn’t happen by accident, there is always something we can do to make our chances of finding love higher.

Decide What You Want from The Relationship

It is important that you know what will make a good relationship for you. Find out what types of things will make a person a great partner for you.

Know Why you want it – If you are in a dead-end job or have no social life – don’t start looking for love purely because you think it will make your life so much better. First establish what you would like to happen in all areas of your life, including your relationships.

If you want a new relationship, ask yourself what will make you happy about this relationship and how will it help you achieve your goals?

More Ways to Boost Your Chances of Finding Love: Do’s and Don’ts

Be sure you take advantage of every opportunity that you get because it will give you exponentially higher chances of finding someone special. Will I ever find love again? These tips will make sure that either way, you are on the road to success!

Do Spend Time with Friends and Family – We all need time away from our partner and spending time with friends will help to remind us of what we do love in life. It will give your new prospective partner a chance to see the real you.

Don’t Be Intimidated by People You Meet – If someone takes an interest in you, don’t run away just because they seem good looking or rich! Yes, they may have more experience than you but that doesn’t matter if this person isn’t for you. Smiles will go a long way 😊

Do Your Research – If you are looking for someone who shares the same interests as you, put your research skills to good use! Learn all about their hobbies, find out places they are likely to be found. It will stop you wasting time trying to find them when they could have been spotted at that great new bar.

Don’t Have Too Many People to Deal with At Once – Having too many prospective partners will only create confusion and will make it harder for you to choose the right person. Don’t make things more complicated than they need to be!

Do Ask Questions – What is your date’s idea of a perfect evening? Where would he or she rather spend Christmas? Asking questions will help both of you understand what will make a relationship work for you.

Do Set Realistic Goals – The chances are we have unrealistic expectations about the person you will meet and how this will go. Be realistic about what can happen within a few weeks and don’t expect too much, too soon – enjoy the journey! Take everything slowly and enjoy getting to know someone new and you will stop having to ask will I ever find love again!

Do Try to Enjoy Yourself – Most modern daters will agree that they would rather enjoy being single than being with the wrong person so always try to have fun when meeting new people, whether they turn out to be “the one” or not.

Don’t Jump in Too Soon – If you are not sure that someone will be right for you, don’t rush into things. A new relationship will only work if the both of you are 100% ready to commit. Keep all your options open

Don’t Play Games – It will take years off your life – no one likes playing games so just be yourself!

Affirmations for Finding Love

You are NOT too poor, too big, too old, too broken – you are worthy of love.

There is nothing wrong with you and there is nothing special about couples in love. You’ll find love when it’s meant to be. In the meantime, here are some affirmations to use when meditating or thinking about the love that is coming your way:

All my relationships are long-term, and they offer me a fantastic, enjoyable experience.
I am deserving of love and entitled to receive it in abundance.
I adore my family and friends. Others demonstrate their affection for me.
I attract loving and caring individuals into my life.
We have a wonderful relationship.
I am grateful for the love in my life and for my caring partner.
I focus on forming positive connections with people who share my values.
I am in love, and it feels good.
I am grateful for and accept love daily.
My partner is loving and caring.
My family and friends are always there for me. I’m grateful every day that so many people care about me.
The Universe will only provide me with trustworthy, loving allies.
I open my heart to love and accept that I am entitled to it.
I am deserving and capable of a long-term, healthy relationship.
I’ll be open, honest, and wealthy in my relationship.
Love surrounds me
I’m attracting the ideal future I’ve always sought.
I breathe in positivity and out negativity.
I am manifesting my dream partner.
Will I ever find love again? I will find love again!

We hope these tips will help you find loved ones sooner rather than later so that before long, we can toast this newfound happiness together! Miracles do happen every so stay on course, know you are worthy of love and that you as an awesome human, are deserving.